Since this blog was written the charity CROP has been relaunched and is now called PACE ( Parents against child sexual exploitation)

Contact information for any parents/carers looking for support

http://www.paceuk.info/contact-us/

For help and advice: 0113 240 3040
 For media enquiries: 07908 636749 

Strength and love

The last few years have been incredibly stressful, perhaps some of the decisions we made were not perfect but we did what we thought was right at the time.We have successfully rebuilt our shattered lives and despite some attempts this week to rock the boat we are united in the knowledge that not only have we survived as a family but we have not stooped to the illegal and immoral activities that have been used against us.

I have been encouraged to write a book about my experiences in the hope that others will learn about the dangers we faced and the long term implications of sexual grooming, abusive relationships and false allegations.
Sex offenders are often devious, manipulative and very dangerous, they use the most bizarre tactics to try and cover their past but their controlling psychopathic behaviour will eventually be their downfall.

August 2010

So much has happened since my last entry on here I thought it was time for an update

2 years ago we were told to give up on our daughter and forget about her,social workers told us we would never see her again,police officers told us we wouldn't want to.Being a mum is never easy but maternal instincts are stronger than anything else in the world so giving up on flesh and blood would just never happen.

Today she is a happy confident young woman,she has passed her driving test and has her own car,she has the most amazing boyfriend who is warmly welcomed into our family home.
Whats more she has passed her GCSE's,A*s As and B....not bad considering we are still waiting for the much promissed strategy meeting and support mechanisms to get her education back on track.

To all you parents out there in a similar situation......never give up hope...never stop fighting
Girls caught up in this nightmare are victims,they need help to recover,they need love and support,they need their family around them.

If by chance a young lady called Molly is reading this please remember you are a victim,you have done nothing wrong,the men you are with are dangerous and manipulative,please contact either your family or the police.

Christmas 2008

Yesterday was Christmas Eve,so along with thousands of other people across the world we went to do some last minute Christmas shopping,ours was slightly different though.

My husband son and I drove to Bristol and collected our beautiful daughter,the nightmare ended and she wanted to come home.Finally we are a family again,together after nearly 2 years,
so for us it will be the best Christmas ever.

HAPPY CHRISTMAS WORLD

Message from best friend


To Sxxxx,
It has been about 18 months since you left my life, yet it still feels like yesterday that you were here with me. I miss you so much, there were things that I could tell you that I could no-one else, and still can’t. I miss how you would be funny without trying to be funny but I most of all I miss you just being here. If you see this I just hope that you will at least make contact, come and visit or something because we are all worried about you.
I miss you
Love Hxxxxx
xxxxx

Birthday Wishes

Happy Birthday for tomorrow babes,
Another Birthday away from home

I want you to know how much I love you,how much I regret not protecting you,how much I hurt without you.

Our lives have changed so much,yet part of us is suspended in the past,we will never truly be able to move on,not without you.

If you ever need us we are here for you,the door is always open,you just need to shout.

Please remember whatever has happened I will always love you,no damage can't be undone.